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Just Joshin' #97 (Happiness)

Published about 2 months ago • 2 min read


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Happiness

I traveled for work this week.

I used to travel for work all the time—not so much since Calvin was born.

When you travel for work all the time, you get status with your preferred airline. Status comes with extra conveniences. Silver: your checked bags are free. Gold: you can choose any seat on the plane and sometimes get bumped to first class. Platinum: you get even more benefits.

Then there's a tier above Platinum where they let you board the plane first and they give you a free sandwich with each flight. Your seat gets a special mark on it so flight attendants always know where you're sitting.

I was once that tier. Getting that free sandwich used to make me feel so happy—which is silly because when you travel for work all the time, someone else usually pays for all your meals.

The world changed. Our industry changed. My life changed.

It was somewhat shocking this week to open the airline app and see my travel status marked "Member” which actually means "No, you don't have any status with us, we just happen to have a database record with your name on it."

No free checked bags. No upgrades. No sandwich.

But travel gets to feel like a privilege instead of a routine. My kids get to express over FaceTime they are eager for my return instead of accustomed to my absence. I get to spend all the other weeks with family I love instead of alone in a hotel room.

Not getting that free sandwich makes me feel so happy.


1 Dad Joke:
Happiness Music


Highlights:
Happiness Research

Coolest Things I Learned In 2020 by David Perrel

Happiness in life is U-shaped, declining until our early 50s and then coming back.

What Really Predicts Happiness? by Nick Maggiulli

Close relationships, more than money or fame, are what keep people happy throughout their lives.

The people who were the most satisfied in their relationships at age 50 were the healthiest at age 80.

Go gentle into that good night by Roger Ebert

"Kindness" covers all of my political beliefs. No need to spell them out. I believe that if, at the end of it all, according to our abilities, we have done something to make others a little happier, and something to make ourselves a little happier, that is about the best we can do. To make others less happy is a crime. To make ourselves unhappy is where all crime starts. We must try to contribute joy to the world. That is true no matter what our problems, our health, our circumstances. We must try. I didn't always know this, and am happy I lived long enough to find it out.

iamJoshKnox Highlight:

We had a company meeting in New Orleans this week. It was the first time we've been together in the same room together.

We even took a group photo.

It will certainly go down in history as one of the iconic company founding photos.

The journey with Cooptimize has been a source of great happiness.
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