Just Joshin' #115 (Sharing)



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We had a brief introduction to game theory.

At the deli last week, after we ate our sandwiches, Calvin and Lawrence wanted a dessert from the ice cream freezer. I told them they could get a dessert if they could agree on one item and were willing to share it with each other.

Improv actors often play a game called "Yes, and–". They accept and build on each other's suggestions, crafting imaginary worlds together. The dessert choosing rules lead Calvin and Lawrence to play a game of "No, I–"

Calvin: I want the chocolate ice cream.
Lawrence: No, I want the strawberry.
Calvin: No, I don't want that. I want the Crunch bar.
Lawrence: No, I want the KitKat bar.
Calvin: No, I...

They worked their way across the freezer and back like that, sometimes even switching sides. (preference intransitivity!)

Me: How about we get the Haagen-Dazs bar?
Both: No, I don't like that!
Me: If we can't agree, maybe we just shouldn't get any dessert this time.
Both: No, WE don't like that!

In the end, they settled on a drumstick, which would not have been my first choice for flavor or nutrition. The drumstick was invented 96 years ago — seems a bit old.

Of course, it wasn't their first choice either. Maybe we learned a lesson.

Vox populi, vox Dei.


1 Dad Joke:
Not Sharing

Why didn't the baker share his special bread recipe?
That's on a knead-to-know basis!

*by Dad[AI]Base


Highlights:
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How To Take Smart Notes by Tiago Forte

Principle #1: Writing is not the outcome of thinking; it is the medium in which thinking takes place
Writing doesn’t begin when we sit down to put one paragraph after another on the screen or page. It begins much, much earlier, as we take notes on the articles or books we read, the podcasts or audiobooks we listen to, and the interesting conversations and life experiences we have.
These notes build up as a byproduct of the reading we’re already doing anyway. Even if you don’t aim to develop a grand theory, you need a way to organize your thoughts and keep track of the information you consume.

If you want to learn and remember something long-term, you have to write it down. If you want to understand an idea, you have to translate it into your own words. If we have to do this writing anyway, why not use it to build up resources for future publications?
Writing is not only for proclaiming fully formed opinions, but for developing opinions worth sharing in the first place.

Rick Rubin on Conversations with Tyler (Podcast)

COWEN: What have you learned from Sherlock Holmes stories​?

RUBIN: To look closely at things, to look deeper, to pay attention, to notice what maybe others aren’t noticing.

COWEN: How exactly do you characterize his special skill? Because to the outside reader, it seems like he’s making things up. Are those acts of creativity on Holmes’s part, or are they acts of noticing?

RUBIN: I think they’re the same thing. I think creativity is acts of noticing. Nothing comes from us. The creator isn’t making the thing. The creator is recognizing the thing, noticing the thing, and then sharing it in a way where the audience can hopefully get a glimpse of what we’ve noticed.

The Pathless Path by Paul Millerd

Creating and sharing in public takes an incredible amount of courage and I remember how awkward and scared I was at the beginning of my journey. It’s easy to tell people what they got wrong but much harder to say “I love what you are doing. I hope you keep going and let me know if I can help.”

The fact that those people make you feel uneasy is a good sign. Because the people creating those posts probably don’t feel uneasy at all. And this is why I want to urge you to consider sharing with the world. You care. You want to do things in good faith. You want to help people, to listen, and connect with others who share your passions.

Photography Workflow by Simon Sarris

Some final thoughts: Along with taking too few photos, another mistake new photographers make is feeling like they have to share something from a photo shoot. Sometimes even when doing planned shoots with a lot of ideas, you’ll take 500 photos and get nothing that really feels like what you wanted. If you resist sharing work you’re not happy with, you do a favor to yourself and your audience.

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